11:00 AM

Get Caffeinated

There will be coffee — don't worry.

11:30 AM

Ceremony

There will be COFFEE. Don't Worry.

12:00 PM

Social Hour

a.k.a Family photo time... Sorry. Photographer’s Wedding...
(Hors d'œuvres and cocktails will ease the wait)

1:00 PM-4:00 PM

Brunch

Kickass food. Seriously. Root Catering. *drops mic*

4:00 PM-7:00 PM

Pool Party/Dinner on the Grill

Yep, we’ll eat again, and again, and then...

7:00 PM-11:00 PM

After Party

S’mores. Fire pit. Music. Pool. Games. Chill.

...do you wanna come?

PARRRTAY

So. We are getting married. Then after we get married we are eating brunch! Some of us will think — that’s quite enough for a Sunday — but if you’re GAME — join us late afternoon poolside for an afternoon of hanging out and floating around the pool and hot tub.

This is a family affair and kids are welcome! We will be a little more chill — but still plan on a late casual dinner with hamburgers and salads and such, a fire pit with s’mores and lots of laughing! We’ll have a safe space for guests to leave bags and change if you decide to stay all day long (do it do it!).

That’s a lot for one day — but we want you to feel like you can stay for as little or as long as you’d like! We totally understand if you need a break from the sun or a siesta after our amazing bloody mary bar — it’s kind of a plan our day your way sort of event!

There will be a valet until 4 pm — the property is on a hill and the driveway is looonnnggggg but we will make sure if you decide to stay that we manage the parking in the easiest way possible.

We will also have an onsite shuttle for those of you needing to get back to your hotel or who just need someone to take them home — we’ll help you sort out your car on Monday. We’re all about keeping everyone safe and comfortable and happy!

One more thing! Keep scrolling...

DRESS

Festive-formal

You’ll be outside witnessing our vows, walking in grass, taking in the view at Bristol Mountain, soaking up sun (pray for sun please. lol) then dining on brunch beneath the big tent, sipping lattes and libations and posing for pics!

If you want — stay for the pool party and bonfire and be sure to download our packing list.

Download packing list...

DEETS

Hotels, parking, etc.

Hotels

We have a block of rooms booked at the Hampton Inn and Suites in Victor, NY (30 minutes from the lodge). Book by May 23 to get the discounted block rate. Just mention the "Swales/Dufair Wedding". Reservations can be made by calling (585) 924-4400. Reservations include hot breakfast, shuttle from the airport, heated indoor pool, private jet, personal masseuse, in-room string quartet. Okay maybe not the last three.

Parking

Parking at Mountainside Lodge is limited. Valet parking is provided for guests driving to the venue. We have shuttle service for hotel guests.

Shuttle

We will have shuttle vans to get you back and forth to the wedding.